Discovering what love is one day at a time
I woke up a few weeks ago with the song Dead or Alive/BonJovi in my head.
When you were a kid, did you ever make excuses for why you couldn’t participate in gym?
“I can’t I have a headache…, It’s raining, I don’t feel well, I twisted my ankle, and I didn’t bring my tennis shoes…, ” (When you knew full well at home that it was a gym day…)
Do you remember the game the “Farmer and the Dell”? “Hi-ho the derry-o the Farmer and the Dell, The Farmer picks a wife… the wife picks a child”, and so on and so forth... Everybody always wanted to be the Farmer, because then you knew you would be in the group. Nobody ever wanted to be the cheese, well, because the cheese stands alone…and goodness gracious no song is longer than that one when you are the last one picked, and you have to be separated from the group….alone, by yourself, with nobody.
You might be reading this because the title caused some curiosity, or because you agree, or not. You may just be bored and have stumbled upon it. No matter the case, I invite you to continue reading…
Have you ever fallen into discouragement? Have you ever found yourself focusing on the circumstances that got your mind and emotions trapped in that hole? Were you able to realize that while you were in that hole… the conversations that you have with yourself basically tear the ladder off the wall of the pit closing off your means of escape?...
I have been married to my wonderful husband for 25 years. We have two young men ages 22 and 16.. This blog is somewhat of a journal and attempt for me to keep a purposeful perspective on life as a whole.